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Market research seeks to figure out where to reach ‘my readers’

By David McElroy · September 19, 2026

If you know the story of this website, you probably know that I started writing for an audience that was obsessed with politics. Over the years, I have almost completely rejected addressing the partisan political world — for reasons that I’ve explained before.

In the last couple of years, I have increasingly focused more narrowly on the question of how people who see the world as I do can (and should) live in a culture which has completely abandoned us. As I’ve grown more confident about precisely the things I want to express, I’ve realized that I don’t know how to reach the people who need and want to connect with the ideas I’m expressing.

As a result, I recently commissioned a market study to look at what I’m writing and tell me how best to connect with people who should be the natural audience for my ideas. I’m not allowed to disclose the identity of the firm that did the analysis, but I can say it’s a major West Coast firm that many of you have heard of.

I realize that this won’t be especially interesting to many people who simply want to read the articles and move on, but I thought it would be interesting enough for a small subset of you to reproduce the executive summary of the report here.

I should point out that the notes included with the study suggested that its use of the term “Christian” here shouldn’t be interpreted in its strict theological sense, because the research said that many of the people included in the category would be people who have a broad Christian worldview — as expressed in a broader western philosophy — not just those who would claim overtly Christian theological beliefs or practices.

I just received the study Friday and I’m still studying the details, but it feels validating so far to see that a third party firm sees a viable niche readership for the things I’m writing about. The question remains about how to specifically reach potential readers who have no reason to ever realize that this website exists.

With all that said, if you’re interested, keep reading to dive in to the executive summary of a report that I’ll be contemplating (and hopefully acting on) as I go forward.

As always, I do appreciate the thousands of you who read my work regularly. I never take you for granted. Keep Reading

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I can’t hear a ‘still small voice’ when I won’t silence the world

By David McElroy · September 15, 2026

I want to tell everybody to shut up. It’s not personal, though.

I don’t know whether to shout or whisper. It doesn’t really matter, because it’s an entire culture that I want to be quiet, not this person or that person.

I’m not angry with anybody. There’s nobody in particular who I want to shut up. It’s chaotic voices and public background music and blaring televisions. But it’s visual “noise,” too. It’s flickering screens of all kinds. It’s beeping phones and computers and mobile devices. It’s constant notifications.

It’s a culture that demands my attention and won’t leave me alone.

When I’m honest with myself, though, I realize that I’m the problem. I have the ability to shut this cacophony off at any time. But I refuse to take control of my life and my environment. I think I can be the master of my media culture.

I’m so addicted to what has come to seem normal that I’m like an alcoholic who thinks he can have just one drink. Or maybe two.

But in the rare moments when I can listen to my own spirit, I know I’m making this way too complicated. It’s not about the noise and the screens and the notifications.

It’s about silence. I desperately need to find silence for my heart and my mind — so I can hear the still small voice that whispers truth and love and wisdom when I’m quiet enough to hear it.

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I quit striving to save the world and focused on changing myself

By David McElroy · September 15, 2026

I have no patience anymore for people who believe they’re going to save the world.

Maybe I’ve seen too many would-be saviors turn into monsters. Maybe my time working in politics taught me what the system does to idealists.

Or maybe I just see too much of my younger self in these well-meaning do-gooders.

Even if you have brilliant ideas — and even if I agree with your ideas — there’s something fundamentally misguided about the notion that the world is waiting for you to come along and save everyone.

Any plan to “save the world” is necessarily going to involve imposing control from the top down. Even if we ignore the stunning arrogance and immorality of imposing control on millions or even billions of people against their will, the truth is that you will never be able to do that.

Your efforts to impose your will are doomed to be crushed by political systems that have existed since long before you were born. And recent history is littered with the corpses of would-be tyrants — and with many millions of their innocent victims.

So what should the budding idealist do — when much of the most popular advice to young people urges them to “go out and change the world”?

That’s simple. Change yourself. That’s the only thing over which you have actual control.

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As part of my effort to rid my life of social media, I will no longer display links to my two Instagram accounts here. Those accounts will be dormant for the time being and will eventually be deleted. I plan to have a method for displaying photos here instead, but the solutions I’ve tested so far have been disappointing. I’m still working on it.

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I need some new portraits of myself, so I tried a I need some new portraits of myself, so I tried a few shots after I got home late Monday night. This one wasn’t great, so I’ll try again later, but I can use it until I have time to shoot another. I was too lazy to light this one properly — and it shows. 😺
Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 27, 2026 Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 27, 2026
Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 19, 2026 Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 19, 2026
When I got home at midnight Monday, I was doing so When I got home at midnight Monday, I was doing some work in the studio and Oliver wanted to join me, so I showed him around to acclimate him to the place again. He rarely goes in there, but I have pictures of him in that studio on the night I brought him home as a kitten. 😺
Earlier this week, I found two photos of Lucy and Earlier this week, I found two photos of Lucy and me that I had never seen. I loved finding the pictures, but seeing these photos left me thinking about the effect it has on us when we lose an animal we love — and it was also a reminder of how much my life has changed for the last nine months it’s been since I lost her. I wrote an essay about this. You can find it as the most recent post at davidmcelroy.org right now if you’re interested. I really do miss this sweet girl.
When I take lightning pictures, I’m always hoping When I take lightning pictures, I’m always hoping to get just one usable photo, but I got two dramatic images tonight. You might recognize the water tower and communication tower that you’ve seen in many of my sunset photos. This is about a mile from my house in Leeds, which is just east of Birmingham.
For those who are in places where it’s miserably h For those who are in places where it’s miserably hot today, here is a minute of light rain and gentle thunder from my back yard late Saturday afternoon. It’s very relaxing to stand at my back door and watch this, especially since the heat is pretty mild today — 80 degrees (about 26 celsius) — for July in the American South.
Alex was willing to cooperate with me for a new po Alex was willing to cooperate with me for a new portrait late Wednesday night. It’s been roughly three and a half years now since the cold night when I was able to lure him out from behind a garbage dumpster into a trap — but I don’t think he’s sorry at this point that he fell for the trick. 😺
This is the face of a man who’s thrilled that the This is the face of a man who’s thrilled that the weekend is finally here. It was a very long (and productive) week, but the time has finally come that I have time to write and read and think. Late Friday night, I’m at the McDonald’s near my house with a Diet Dr Pepper and a MacBook. For me, it’s like Cheers without the booze.
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From the CritterCam: The webcam on my desk just ca From the CritterCam: The webcam on my desk just caught Sam climbing to the top of my desk at 2:45 a.m. to see whether the cat bed was open, but he found a “no vacancy” sign in the form of a sleeping Alex. I guarantee he’ll be back when Alex moves in a bit. I love watching these guys go back and forth over who gets that little bed.
I was just lying down on the bed Sunday evening wh I was just lying down on the bed Sunday evening when I felt Meg jump onto the bed with me. She was apparently curious what in the world I was doing on the bed this early in the night, so she was coming to investigate.
When I got home late Saturday night, Meg relaxed a When I got home late Saturday night, Meg relaxed and purred in my arms for a few minutes. I love the way she casually relaxes those little mittens when I hold her.
Meg isn’t yet working regular Neighborhood Watch s Meg isn’t yet working regular Neighborhood Watch shifts with her brothers, but she’s learning the ropes of watching the block. She’ll be joining the rotation before too long.
It’s almost 3 a.m. and Oliver is relaxing in my la It’s almost 3 a.m. and Oliver is relaxing in my lap to watch Meg on the bed nearby. He’s the one of the three boys who is most curious about her, but she still doesn’t really want to be near him. Both of them were briefly in my lap a few minutes ago, but she suddenly realized he was there, so she took off to the bed.
I’ve never seen Meg try the cat bed on my desk tha I’ve never seen Meg try the cat bed on my desk that’s so popular with the other cats, but she checked it out for a few minutes Friday afternoon. She seemed to approve, so she might eventually be joining the constant rotation that the boys have made in that thing. Of course, when the heated pad comes back out in a month or two, I’ll bet she’ll join them on there, too.
I caught my new little friend Meg on top of the ca I caught my new little friend Meg on top of the cats’ castle this afternoon. I had never seen her up here before. She seems as though she’s not sure what she thinks about being that high. She jumped straight to the floor after this and retreated underneath a chair in the bedroom to contemplate her choices in life.
From the CritterCam: I’m not home to see what migh From the CritterCam: I’m not home to see what might have awakened Sam from his nap briefly, but he seemed to wake up long enough to look outside a nearby window before curling back into a ball for more sleep. These felines have really tough lives.
I’ve just gotten home and I’m changing out of my d I’ve just gotten home and I’m changing out of my dress clothes, so Meg and Oliver have come to keep me company. They’re both on the bed while I change, but they’re not getting any closer than about three feet. There’s been no hissing so far tonight.
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Meet my new girlfriend. Her name is Meg. And she’s my little sweetheart. A couple of months ago, a neighbor across the street told me about a new stray in the neighborhood that she and I were both soon feeding. The cat had been very skittish about contact and she had a lot of scabs and parasites in her fur, but a trip to the vet last week revealed that she was otherwise in good health. The vet estimates her to be 1 to 2 years old. I named her for Meg Murry, the 13-year-old protagonist of Madeleine L’Engle’s wonderful book, “A Wrinkle in Time.” (Please read the book. Don’t watch the horrible movie.) Since we lost Lucy almost a year ago, it seems appropriate that we finally have a new little girl to join the household. She’s already captured my heart, but Alex, Oliver and Sam aren’t there quite yet.

There’s nothing socially acceptable that’s as dangerous as drinking alcohol. Most people grow up being told to “drink responsibly” — and all of us see people abusing this drug in one way or another — but the truth is that drinking alcohol is always a terrible risk. The alcohol in these drinks is toxic and the human liver has to work hard to filter the toxins out. What most people don’t realize is that alcohol is classified as a known carcinogen by the World Health Organization — because of the well-established connection between imbibing and various cancers. Many people have taken refuge behind the idea that light or moderate drinking might be safe, but a new study shows that drinking even one drink a day increases the risks of 10 types of cancer. When I was a teen-ager, I looked around and saw the negative effects that this behavior had on a lot of people and decided not to start drinking, so I’ve never even tried this poison. The evidence keeps piling up that I was lucky to have come to that conclusion early.

It turns out that the radical far left has been training “Antifa cats” to sabotage anything important to Donald Trump. Everything he did was perfect. Honest. It was all the cats’ fault. Arrest all the cats! This is the latest of my ridiculous satirical shorts. Please go watch it. Then “like” it and subscribe. Please. I’m begging you. (Too much?) Although a couple of the previous videos have had views in the hundreds, most have still been seen by fewer than 20 people. So I seem to be having trouble letting people know that page exists.

Here’s the latest of my ridiculous parody shorts. It crossed my mind Tuesday to wonder what a slick and fast-talking car dealer might do right now to try to turn the high price of gasoline to his advantage. So I conceived of a fat and lovable character who tried to sell cars that don’t use any fuel — and then I started wondering if it would be funnier if all the characters were felines. Designing the King Cashpaw character took about four hours, but the rest took only another four hours, so this was a relatively quick piece that virtually wrote itself. I know it’s almost impossible for these parody videos to find a larger audience, but at least they amuse me — and there are 19 of them on my YouTube page now. The first few were very limited, but they’re getting more complex.

The Republican Party is dead. It still exists in name, of course, but it’s nothing but a shell. All that’s left are idiots and stooges and con men of the MAGA party. When Donald Trump is gone — which won’t be long — those populist idiots and pragmatic fools will have no one to follow. Democrats will thrive. They will take more power than ever and they will push the federal government further to the radical far left than ever. When that happens, don’t just blame Trump if you’re a conservative. Blame every person who has claimed to be a conservative and has given up on principles, character and everything else that Republicans once claimed to stand for. As someone who worked as a GOP political consultant for many years, this is disgusting and disturbing to me. Those who have enabled Trump to have almost unchecked power are going to be shocked when they see what they will unleash in the long run. It’s been plain all along what this narcissistic con man is. It’s your fault that you chose to pretend not to see what he really is.

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